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Many people have come to believe that marriage has lost its meaning. With todays high rates of divorces, with almost 50% (47% to be exact) of marriages ending in divorce, people feel the need to disregard its value and the sanctity of the institution of marriage.

Sure we say things like Years ago marriage meant something, today that no longer holds true. In all actuality, marriage means what it did over 50 years ago. It is a sacred union between two individuals vowing to become one. The issue is that people forget that they have become one, and today we like to run from struggles. We allow what society holds as a standard (lack thereof) or what weve become accustomed to overshadow what is really valuable. People dont just disregard marriage, but in todays world people are ready to give up on anything when things become tough. We see a struggle, and our first reaction is to run instead of jumping over the hurdle and seeing the glory at the end of a tough run.

I dont need to see successful married couples to want to have a successful long-lasting marriage one day. Sure, it sets a great standard to follow, but if that standard hasnt been set, why not set it yourself? I know plenty of people who didnt graduate from high school, but that never stopped me from receiving my diploma. I know many people who never went to college, but it didnt stop me from going to college myself. Many people didnt graduate college, and that didnt discourage me from achieving that goal; I graduated. The thing is, we can make a million excuses of why we dont believe in marriage, why we dont want to do this or that, but in reality the issue is the individual, not society. Excuses are merely мейд when you just dont want to do something. No need to say you dont believe in marriage because you dont know anyone whos been married or you know married couples with issues. Fact is we all have issues, married or single; the difference is how we handle those situations. What do you hold to be valuable in your life?

Marriage is a commitment. Marriage is sacred. Marriage is hard work. Marriage is the ability to overcome any obstacle whether it is financial or emotional, and recognizing that with your faith you will be able to conquer anything working against your marriage. You make a vow to become unified with another personAs a unified body; there is no time to just фокус on I! Sure we all need some me time, but how does your I affect the we? Marriages/Relationships work because you want them to workYou think them through, you work it out. When youre ready to give up, all is lost and you arent fighting to work through your situation. Thats when it meets its demise. Thats when people begin to become selfishThats when we spread hurt.

Marriage in todays world, while not as strictly defined as it was in Jane Austins time, still has many aspects that are almost universal. In Austens era, marriage was mainly thought of as a way for a person, mostly women, to ensure themselves a life of prosperity and security. Marriage was considered the majority of women must do, and for men, it was something they could wait to see come to them. In modern times, however, that definition has changed, as men and women both want marriage for many reasons which include love, financial security, and social pressures.
Many legal and financial advantages can be attained through marriage. While it may not be the sole reason for a couple tying the knot, most of the time it is definitely a factor they at least consider. Marrying strictly for this reason however is looked down upon in todays society. Arranged marriage is also considered by many, including myself, as something alien that happens under special circumstances, even though only an era ago it was something that many families took seriously. 
One major difference of marriage in modern society from Austens society is marriage is now considered by almost everyone as something that should be reserved for couples who are in love. Of course, the definition isnt always so vague, as many gay couples still find themselves blocked at every turn when they try to arrange a marriage. But when love is obviously clear between two people, it is usually a good sign that they will marry, regardless of social class.
Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves, vanity to what we would have others think of us." In order to alleviate social pressures, especially from their family, marriage is considered a rite of passage into adulthood in many cultures, including Americans. While it is possible for either a man or a woman to go through life and not get married, both are constantly reminded by society that they are missing out on a great experience of life.